Attire

We are looking to have a mix/gradient of Blue and Grey suits (2 or 3 piece, dealers choice). We don’t want anyone to buy a new suit if at all possible. Please text me as soon as you can with what suit you want to wear so we can get a proper mix of light/dark and blue/grey. Attached below are some random pictures from the internet with what we’re talking about.

Ties, Socks, Pocket Squares, and Tie bars will be provided. Shoes/Belt should be Brown and not left in Scituate, MA. If everyone could gain 10-15 pounds to make me look thinner by comparison that would be awesome. Lastly please let your significant others know if they are going to the ceremony to wear flat comfortable shoes. The Vanderbilt is a mix of cobblestones and grass hills.

Friday-Rehearsal Dinner

The Rehearsal Dinner will be at my Parent’s house on Ridley Ct. Dinner and Cocktails will be at 7PM. All significant others are invited, dress is Smug Country Club dinner. I’m not opposed to a Friday AM round of Golf at St. George’s.

Saturday-Beach Barbecue

We’re having a Beach Barbecue at our house on Saturday for all friends (and a few family) invited to the wedding. We plan to start around 2. We have paddleboards, kayaks, beers , etc. Everyone is welcome to come sit on my deck.

Sunday-WEdding

The guys will be getting ready at my parents house. The bus picks us up at 1PM sharp. We should get there around 11 to “Get Ready”, eat Egg Sandwiches, and take a few pictures. Beers will be provided.

After the ceremony there will be cocktails at the Vanderbilt while we take pictures. Around 4PM we have a party bus to take the Bridal Party and everyone’s significant other to the reception at Old Fields Port Jefferson. The afterparty will also be at Old Fields Port Jefferson. We have a shuttle constantly running to the hotels from 4-1 and the Party Bus will be taking Lauren, Myself, and anyone else who needs to get back to the Greenlawn area at the end of the afterparty to Greenlawn.